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So, in an effort, which really hasn't settled in yet, to get organized, Aaron and I decided to add more form and thus function, to our day. He's not taking classes this semester, I asked him not to and instead help me a couple of BIG projects of mine, which could be a recipe for disaster or at least for extreme laziness. So, starting with notes jotted down on paper to sticky notes on poster board to, finally, everything entered on Google Calendars, which automatically updated my cell thank you very much, we think we are on the right track.
          Well, I use Google Calendar while Aaron uses VieMinder.

 Isn't my week stunningly symetrical??
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This goes along pretty well with the post I did here about Seven Science-backed Tips for Forming Habits That Stick.
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From: Productivity501 which is a every-once-in-a-while email blog wherein, fairly obviously, betters ways to be productive are presented

And to Quote Mr. Mark Stead who produces Productivity501
One of the biggest ways people lose their productivity is in trying to decide what to do. This probably seems silly, but if you look at most planning techniques, they are mostly designed to reduce the amount of time you have to spend making a decision on what to do next. Why? Because that is probably one of the biggest time drains people face. Instead of working on something important, they spend time trying to decide or worrying about what to do next. If you are really bad about this, you can spend more time trying to decide which task to do than it would take to just complete the tasks.
          Years ago, I went to several Franklin Planner training sessions. The whole point of how they teach you to manage your tasks is to help reduce the friction of trying to decide what to do next. You make your decision during your planning and simply follow your plan so you don’t have to lose time between the actual tasks. Most other planning methods are really trying to do the same thing, though most don’t come out and say it directly.
          I’ve been watching my five-year-old daughter as she writes words. Sometimes a page takes her a very long time to complete, but it usually isn’t the actual writing that slows her down. It is the time spent in between words where she pauses and thinks. At one point, I noticed that she wasn’t doing each word in order. She was picking a random word on the page and writing that. She’d still complete all of the words she had to copy on the page, but it took her a lot longer because there was a decision point after each word to try to decide which to do next.
         I got her switched over to doing them all in order now and it seems to have helped her finish more quickly. But the thing she was doing with her words is the same thing a lot of adults do with all kinds of other areas. Every time you have to pause and make a decision, you spend valuable time that you could spend actually completing tasks. This isn’t to say you shouldn’t spend any time making a decision about what you should do next, but make sure that it isn’t consuming a significant portion of the time you have available to work.

    This principle applies to more than just deciding what task to do next. Have you ever spent so much time trying to decide which movie to watch that you don’t end up watching anything? Sometimes the best thing you can do is just make a decision and go for it. Which movie to watch may seem like an unimportant example, but have you ever felt the same way when trying to do something more important?
    You can’t let fear of making the “wrong” decision keep you from moving forward–particularly when you are in a situation where there really isn’t a “right” answer to be found.
    I’m definitely not perfect at this, but I have gotten better at just picking something when I realize that I’m wasting far too much time trying to decide between two equally valid options. Even the act of just randomly picking an option will force the decision process forward and help you clarify what you really want out of the situation.
    Back to the movie example. If two people are in decision deadlock trying to decide what to watch, the fact that one of them says, “why don’t we just watch X” can help push the discussion for the participants to realize that they both really want to watch Y. It is a lot easier to turn a ship that is moving, just like it is easier to make a good decision when you are actually moving forward and not stuck in gridlock.
And to Unquote Mr. Mark Stead who produces Productivity501


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So, way back at the end of last year, I posted a Resolutions List, which can happily still be found here, wherein one resolution under PRESENTATION was, and I quote:
Find a signature item to add color & whimsy to wardrobe (ie: break out the tons of old 50s jewelry, especially necklaces & bracelets I already own)

One of my lovely friends, [ profile] lisa_thecat asked about the jewelry, requesting a photo so, thinking that would be fun, I dragged out my jewelry finding this.

I had actually organized the whole of it last year getting rid of a bunch but still, a mess and never worn because of that. Feeling inspired, I went online and ordered six cute little tie hangers, coated with that weird velvet stuff for friction, which took forever to arrive. But arrive they did. And, with suggestions by Aaron, the stuff is now sorted and hung and attached to a bedrrom wall so I can finally post a pic, or two, for Lisa.

This is everybody.
Pins. Sortof ethnic necklaces. Sortof bling necklaces. Semi-valuable, but not really, necklaces. Bracelets
And finally what Lisa asked to see, my Grandmother Inez's's and my mother Mary's costume necklaces, mainly from the 50's, with a couple of them added by me over the years.

The little basket in the top photo went to Goodwill and the little baggies went to recycle.
Thank you lisa_thecat for requesting a photo. This probably wouldn't have gotten done otherwise and I'm so glad it has.

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For the past few years, I have done my mission101s quietly, behind the scenes as it were, having declared my intention to Update periodically and then, not following through.
          I am now, once again, declaring my intention. Let us see how I follow through.

Shared-ideas.jpg TASKS 64 through 67_Organize SOCIAL MEDIA: the idea here being that if I have it, I should use it in some practical way that benefits my life not just wastes my time. Otherwise, I should just leave it behind.
         I include email here only from an orgazational POV. Leaving it behind is not an option :)

Everything feels so tidy!!!

65_Organize Tumblr_my fun child

Tumblr is my fun place, my mindless, for the most part, place, easy in-easy out so the main thing here was to clean up my feed, removing those who are no longer relevant and, toward the future, adding those who will be, a WIP. I want tumblr to be informative but not heavy and probably focused mainly on art & fun-facts science, happy gifs, Did You Knows, and so on. Easy :)

66_Organize Livejournal_my problem child

Currently I'm having a nearly one-way conversation, so I went through my Friends-List removing almost all of those who hadn't posted in over a year & some of those I comment to but who never comment to me. Two-way street, people. Didn't leave many so in doing this I realized I need a different kind of f-list, one less focused on the etherealness of fandom. Although the friends I've garned through fandom, I love, I need more friends focused on lifestyle which a few of my famdon friends have become.
          I also cleaned up my Scrapebook, which is actually pretty fun, scanning through ALL the photos I've posted over my years on Livejournal. And finally, I updated my Profile to better reflect my new focus so, I'll see how it goes. Oh and user icons. So many parts!

67_Organize Email_my where-everything-funnels-through child

I lightened the load by about 800 no-longer-needed emails some, since I am something of a hoarder when it comes to messages from friends, dating back to 2009.

64_Organize Twitter_my socio-political child

My twitter feed was also heavily skewed toward a fandom-focus. Instead, I've made into my socio-political place-to-go, deleting many lovely people I not longer feel an affinity with, following some senators, one an actual Republican (Mitch McConnell) so I can bitch bitch bitch, a few congressmen, and orgs that fit my mood, suit my attitude, support my world-view. Oh and journalists like Dan Rather.
As an unnecessary aside, I've joined Facebook but only with an extremely limited focus, three friends so far, who I love but who live far far away so I never get to see them. As we grow older I would like to refind them on a more daily basis :)

A happy happy sigh


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..whether on paper or simply in your head, then maybe these tips can help you get a handle
on what you want to accomplish.
Could happen :)
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From Quartz:
Seven science-backed tips for forming habits that stick

1. Powerful verbs )

2. Public commitment. )

3. Remind yourself several times a day about your commitment to your resolution. )

4. Cues for positive actions. )

5. Constructive imagery. )

6. Friendly support. )

7. Self-compassion and dogged persistence. )

And you can always learn more about habit-making here in Roediger and Brown’s book they co-wrote with Mark McDaniel, Make It Stick: The Science of Successful Learning (Harvard University Press, 2014)



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