I think as much as open relationships hurt and I feel are almost cruel if one doesn't agree really, it is not the fault of the one out with other people, but the one making himself live throgh the pain. I know how it is to love and it not be enough, but I must say I walked, eventually. Not because he was wrong or I was right, but if you don't agree and they wont change then do yourself a favour right? On the other hand it did take me 3 painful years to work that out, lol. I really remember feeling so inadequate and the pain. OMG! So well described it took me back.
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Date: 2009-03-31 10:29 am (UTC)